Monday, October 3, 2011

Happy Birthday Wishes, Ex's and One Big Happy Family



So let me start off with wishing my best friend an awesome amazing Happy Birthday. She has been there for me and I for her. We've both have been through some tough stuff together and have even LIVED together so I think that little detail always brings us back to square one. Best Friends. This is the part where we both high five each other and yell, "BFF's for life!" Yeah something like that. Unfortunately, we're not that girly.Ok maybe she is a tad bit more than I am. Anyways, now for the "Ex's" part. Let's just say anyone would get annoyed if somehow this tiny little fly would keep on buzzing around your ear even after smacking it away. Not that that's how I treat my relationships or anything just metaphorically speaking of course. It seems that with me some how, in some way, my Ex just can't stop coming into my life. Is it really impossible to just grow super powers and project some type of force field around me so that nobody gets in? Yeah super heroes have it so great. *roll eyes* Thing is that as much as I try and repel him, there's always some type of repercussion. I cut him out of my life and yet I hear about him through my friends. Or see some stupid street name sign that couldn't possibly in any way be named after him. Or the fact that his "song" comes on the radio at the most random moments. Yeah so much for breaking it off. From what I do recall I am taken now and that's all that matters. I can now breat in and out and just concentrate on that little detail and just go on living my life. Oh yeah did I mentioned I got invited to go visit my friend who lives in Tennessee? Yeah he lives there too. And with my luck the world just becomes smaller. :)
Big happy families don't exist. Yes I am being random and so straight forward. But I am simply not going to sugar coat sh**. It is the circle of life and that is what it is. Yes I may have been watching too many previews for the Lion King on DVD and Blu Ray but that has nothing to do with my previous statement. The fact is no family is perfect and when it comes to disfunctional families, well let me give you a piece of information you might not now or should know by now. EVERYBODY lives/is part of a disfunctional family. Yes maybe your mom embarasses you in front of your friends or you argue about anything or because she thinks your yelling when your clearly just speaking loud, normally, well that's being disfunctional. It's how families are. Good old family reunions. I mean do they really have to stand there in public and yell at your sibling for not tucking in their shirt right? I think that's where most kids wish they were part of another planet much less part of their family. Reality is, in the end you love your family no matter what. Or hope that's how most cases are.

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