Ok, so let me start out with today being one of the best days of my life. Ok maybe it wasn't my top 10 best days but it was getting pretty close. Got paid, have a job, had the AC on in my office, got my nails done(and didn't get messed up like they usually do) and made it home in less than an hour! That last one and very first one (of course), we're definitely the highlights. :) Oh and I got to laugh my ass off at last nights episode of Jersey Shore. I swear that show is just good for laughing. If you ever need to cheer up and just laugh at something, look up an old episode of Jersey Shore and you will be bright eyed and bushy in no time. I got that last quote from Alvin and the Chipmunks just in case you were wondering. Anyways...
So, to the point of this post. In life, we women, will find our selves in the most common situations, dating. Now, when you date, there are things you do and of course things you DON'T do. And that is the part that I going to focus on today. Precisely because one of my best friends just reminded me this whole week about it and I thought it might be useful for some of you. Yes, you, who might be wondering if you're texting too much or if you should call first. And not to mention, if you should ask what "they" are looking for. With our society literally bombarded with new technologies everyday, it's hard to not know what our "date" is doing or if they are not interested in us like we are interested in them. So, check out the steps below, because I will not be repeating my self...
STEP 1: Do not, under any circumstance, call/text after 10pm. They might be sleeping or in the middle of God know's what.
STEP 2: Do not call/text before 11am. They might still be sleeping and automatically assume you are up in their grill.
STEP 3: Do not text right away after receiving a text from them. Makes you seem needy. That is not what we want children.
STEP 4: Do not go over to their house unless you absolutely know where you guys are headed. Or if you have gone on like 500 dates already and you really think it is THAT moment in time where you are ready to give the golden ticket away and you know you will not end up crying the next day because you got played.
STEP 5: When texting in a conversation, do not text unless he has texted back. Sending endless messages will not make him text any faster either. Have you ever thought of the remote fact that he might be busy or simply not able to get to the phone. Not to mention it just makes you look desperate, clingy and mental since it looks like you're having a conversation with your self. Always wait for them to text back first! It should be a no brainer, but believe it or not, it happens. I usually end up beating my self with a stick after hearing about these cases.
STEP 6: After spending time with them, give them space. Let them come to you. There is no more mystery or fun when knowing everything about each other or simply, let them get a breather. Especially when it comes to men. Men have a weird way of handling them selves. It's no wonder our society is the way it is today. Sometimes I wish I could be a lesbian...
STEP 7: Last but not least, do not beat your self up by thinking about whether you will hear from them or not. If it's meant to be it's meant to be. If he really liked you, he will call/text. There is no reason to feel anguished or rejected just yet, because they didn't call or text. And please don't even think about going on their Facebook to check where they are at because that will just make it even worse. Not to mention pathetic. There are so many more blue balls out there and you just need to take 'em and see where they take you. It's all about putting your self out there and whom ever appreciates you the best is going to make their move when you least expect it.
So, that concludes the lesson for the day. lol I feel utterly exhausted even though I was sitting on my ass the whole time I was typing this. Yes, exhaustion can happen folks. And don't worry, you can burn calories with your mind too. Especially remembering about certain conversations I had earlier this week with someone who I won't name. lol. Love you. You know who you are. :) Reality is gals, that no matter what precautions you do, some men won't appreciate you either way. And those are the ones you need to stay away from. But in the end, those steps I mentioned, do come in handy. ;)
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